I am a pro-feminist ally Two Spirit gay man, really as feminist (and ever-evolving) as one can be, short of being cis-gendered female and, from there, identified as feminist. My heart and mind are aligned with women deeply, as that is my nature. Those who know me well know that I speak truthfully from my heart.
In the past few years, I have learned that what I have stated above remains very much the case while more clearly separating out this commitment to myself: I will not be a doormat of domination and/or disrespect from others, including feminist-identified strong women. Previously, it was just domineering, intimidating, difficult men with whom I set down such a clear boundary. Now, it’s anyone who comes across this way to me– domineering/disrespectful. This is a fairly recent development, one that has taken a few years to clearly figure out and delineate. Self respect means being clear about being treated fairly and kindly by anyone and everyone, regardless of their gender and identity as a feminist. And, yes, I am always open to learning from and owning up to my mistakes. But, for someone to be in my personal life on an ongoing basis, I will expect the same reciprocation of valuing and respect that I myself am willing, able, and glad to express, no matter who you are. Peace.
The Practical, Fanciful Pagan 
Rah-Rah! You have declared, clearly and respectfully, what all should understand. The othering or disrespecting of people who are feminists just because they don’t have female body parts is outrageously wrong. I know many men, both cis-gender and along the spectrum, who are feminists and commonly experience dismissal or outright disrespect from feminist women who by their very identity as feminists ought to know better.
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Thank you so much for saying this, Jazz.
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